09 August 2009
07 August 2009
When all else fails part two!

A Celebration of Classic MGM Film Musicals
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b00m10hz/BBC_Proms_2009_Prom_22_A_Celebration_of_Classic_MGM_Film_Musicals06 August 2009
Buddy's Friday 'When all else fails, do it yourself!'
This is rather a strange one for Buddy's but with all that has gone on over the last year and getting todays results I thought why not. So I will start at the beginning and hopefully you will get the idea at the end. So here goes.
Last September I started an Open University course in Creative Writing, I can tell you I never been so scared, nerves and excited all in the one! I mean me, writing, it was laughable I can tell you. But I did it and over the time of the course I did really well except for one thing, the tutor I had didn't help or give advice at all and well, lets say I had an opinion about this since the course cost over £700 pounds!!!! I asked her if she would comment on our work for example, is the commas and that ok, is the voice working, are the sentences to long, is it boring, should we start again, things like that. My answer, sorry no I don't do that I will only give feedback on the five tutorials and the TMA's that you send in. Well, this was rather shocking, but I did find out from other students that other tutors were the same but some tutors were very good and gave loads and really helped out. I'm sorry but this really bugged me, I mean come on they get paid a good wage to teach us but they don't, I just got told to go the work book!!
Today I got my grade back for this course, I got a bare pass. I was not happy at all and rather felt like a failure etc. To get a bare pass I was told, you basically didn't do any of the work. What got me about this was that all my other work throughout the year was, well I must say BLOODY GREAT,
scores as follows
TMA 01 80%
TMA 02 96%
TMA 03 80%
TMA 04 56%
TMA 05 61%
ECA 42%
I was also told that we would get an average of all our scores and that would give our grade, well that wasn't true it was on the last and with the last and after a long phone call to my tutor giving me advice (won't go into that one!!!) I got only a 42%. So with all this and feeling rather let down and wasted over 700 pounds Mom (Margaret's Ramblings), and I have decided and come up with a better way of learning and sharing how to write with positive feedback as well.
Why not start up our own writer's group. One that doesn't cost anything, where everyone can feel safe and get good feedback and advice as well. The advice from reading other's work to getting your own read and others commenting. To others putting up their experiences and passing on good books, cd's, books, web sites and videos they have found over the years and it wont cost so much money!!!
I found today really hard, I had thoughts of going back to work in Asda stacking shelves for the rest of my life, when I really want to do more than that, make enough money for us to buy our very own home and to me this was a way.
So my piece for Buddy's Friday is to share and cut cost of education and start up our very own writer's group. I would love to know what you all think and will (when the Writer's Blog is up and running hopefully next week) be putting up the stories I did for the creative writing course I did. If anyone is interested in joining a writer's co operative please leave a comment so we can all get together.
As with most things in our lives,
If you want something done, do it yourself
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11 June 2009
Buddy's Friday, 'English Asparagus'

Take a bunch of Asparagus (this is for two people).
Two eggs
Bacon, or not or sausages, really what every you like.
One basic cheese sauce (can buy these in packets, best home made though).
As many different herbs you have in the garden or house, dried if not fresh.
Put the Asparagus into a pot of boiling salted, with a little sugar water, I usually cook for about 15 minutes but depends on thickness of the Asparagus.
While this is cooking I cook up my cheese sauce but also add a pinch of canine pepper. This time I cut up some chives from the garden and added them to the sauce, really made quit a difference.
While waiting on the bacon to cook, chop up all the herbs you have and put to one side.
Put the two eggs in with the Asparagus for just under hard boiled eggs, so about five minutes.
Once the bacon is cooked, the Asparagus is just soft and eggs are ready, strain the Asparagus and place them in rows on the plate. Pour a some of the cheese sauce over the Asparagus, then place the bacon next. With the eggs we have a slicer as you can see via the photo, if not just cut up how you see fit or best as, then they go on top of the bacon. Then a little more of the sauce, topped with paprika and loads of the fresh herbs.
This is great to have with fresh bread on a really hot day.
I'll say one thing, it was bloody lovely.
29 May 2009
buddy's friday, 'finally beating that white butterfly'
Well, we hope we have anyway. Last year we brought a few broccoli, about six I think. Planted them in the herb garden (didn't have much in it at the time) and hoped for the best. Well, as some of you would know, the white butterfly thought this was heaven and Mom spent most of her time brushing the eggs of with a tooth brush!! This didn't work. So we thought this year we would grow our own and make sure we set it up right.
First was the growing, all come from seed and WOW! We were so impressed on how easy it was to grow them.
All we did was,
buy the seeds,
pot them up,
watered them,
waited for them to grow a bit,
potted them on into bigger pots when ready,
then a few weeks later they are ready for planting.
Amazing, I can't bake a cake (seem to cook anything else except for cakes) but I can grow a plant, very strange. They have been ready to go in the garden for about two weeks now, but with going away and not having sorted the protection out I didn't really want to put them in, well lets say I refused. So last week we finally got into it and we went and brought what we needed.
First was the pipping as you can see from the picture, this comes from B&Q, is plumping pipes, cost us about £2.36 each and we needed seven of them. We are going to house these pipes in the shed over winter, am hoping they last a few years.
Next was the metal spikes that help hold the netting down. They where around the same price for a pack of ten, which should last, well at least ten years.
Then finally the netting, or mesh. This one was hard since we had no idea what we were buying and well, there is a lot of garden centres out there with staff that know nothing about gardening!!!!!! SHAMEFUL. So what we got was netting or mesh that protects from frost and insects, it works really well and is rather cheap.
Hopefully you can see from the pictures how we did this,
Plant the plants first (I also dig in some crystals that help store water)
them the pipping, just loop it over and down deep enough that they wont pop out.
Then drape the netting over the pipes (you will need two people to do this) slowly while putting the metal pegs in as you go.
After we did this we also put the bark we have all around the edges, just in case they know how to dig!!
It was so easy doing this and looks great, mind you, it is a lot easier to do when it is not windy, let alone one of the worst windy days. As we did.
Oh, there is a new friend on the stump in front of the cabbage bed, he is too cute for words but seems to be giving people a shock when they see him, know idea why thought.
(click on the pictures for a larger view)
16 May 2009
02 May 2009
we have a new member of the family
Toby, playing in one of our soft fruits.
Looking innocent amongst the mint that has grown in
this pot for three years.
Sage, chives and parsley, are his favorite herbs, just hope
he don't get them all at once!
Hiding in the sorrel, Toby got caught having a dig around.
All rights are owned by this blog and all nuttiness and mental behavior are owned by the reader and have nothing whats so ever to do with the writer.
She is totally sane.
HONEST
01 May 2009
buddy's friday, 'cheaper way to string up peas, beans and tomatoes'

First is the sweet peas which is over by the shed and green house, with this idea it is the fence we put up so was ok to put nails in the fence, might be best to ask your neighbors if this is ok before hand.
All I needed for this was, string, a hammer, nails and a pair of scissors.
I did this going along five times.
Then Mom planted all the sweet peas and and other plants that will look amazing.
For runner beans, just for pieces of bamboo, grouped together, then string around the base, middle and top for support for the beans.
Pebbles, as always keeping an eye on what we are doing.
garden update video
17 April 2009
12 April 2009
just for fun, my name in flowers





After Mom (Margaret's Ramblings) seeing this post, she suggested going here, Felley Priory Gardens, Click here for information on the Gardens HERE
They sell plants too, woohooo can't wait to go.



10 April 2009
Buddy's Friday, 'Elderflower and Chamomile hand gel'
All through last year and mostly bargain buying at the end of the season as well we have been buying plants, roses, herbs to make our own products ourselves. David Austin roses, the smell is to dye for,
(our rose, we brought last year, the smell is
just amazing)
Lavenders, planting every kind we can get our hands on, Herbs (this is still in its early stage), planting all sorts that are for eating as well for healing etc. Mom (Margaret's Ramblings) and I love herbs and anything that smells lovely, we are always finding new smelly's for the bathroom, so last year we went through our many (its an addiction!!!) herb and make your own product books and made a list. This year we are going to have a go at a few.
(some of the lavenders we planted last year)
This is one I will try once the Elderflower (grows all over around here) and Chamomile are in full bloom.
Elderflower and Chamomile hand gel
- 3 tbsps arrowroot 100ml/fl oz water
- 2 tbsps dried chamomile
- 2 tbsps dried elderflowers
- 3 tbsps glycerine
- Gather together and measure out the ingredients. Assemble some small screw top pots for storage.
- Heat the water and add the herbs. Leave to steep until thoroughly cooled.
- Warm the glycerine in a double-boiler and add the arrowroot. Stir very well.
- Strain the infusion. Gradually add to the glycerine and arrowroot mixture and stir until it is clear and starting to gel. Put into the pots.
Note on Camomile and Elderflower
Chamomile has many healing cosmetic uses. This hand gel exploits the herb's ability to soften the skin. Elderflower is effective as a tonic for all skins.
Magic of Herbs by Jane Newdick's
For more buddy's friday, please visit Margaret's Ramblings, here
08 April 2009
watery wednesday, the joy of water

These pictures where taken a few years ago before we had our fencing up, this year he will have the freedom of the garden and me chasing him around the garden with the hose. I can't wait!!

'It keeps coming, I swear the water is laughing at me'

'Maybe if I just keep biting it, Nope, that don't work, I'll
sneak up on it'

'Will you just stay still'

'Oh I give up, time for a roll'


'What, you turned the water on, a boy is gona get wet'

'How perfect a summer's day, the joy of playing with the
water, then a snooze in the afternoon'
'Just hope she forgot that I really need a bath now'
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03 April 2009
buddy's friday, 'the shed comes alive'

This week is on our shed, 'how to put up a shed with ease and what and not to do.
The next part was painting, since ours was going so close to the fence I thought it a good idea to paint it frist, I used a spray which was sooooooooo easy. As you can see from the picture below, I was thinking of play school at the time.
Here is the house, here is the door etc etc etc.
The people who we got it off where great, we got the bits that where missing within days.
After the floor is laid, up goes the sides, we worked on the back side then the end up.
and the windows.
and the roof.
Well, she had to check the floor out.
Then the doors went on.
End of day one, windows went in kinda for now, just in cased it rained.
TA DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
31 March 2009
watery wednesday
Wales is a beautiful place and we are headed back there again in a few months for the festival. We can't wait!!!!
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